I recently saw a guy that i like posted on adult friend finder a sex and swingers web site? i recently saw a guy like posted on adult friend finder a sex and swinger web site ...i was completely shocked....some of his woman friends aren't too bad, but i think in general it's a terrible website and only insecure people go on there to post ad for singles. what is the verdict from you? |
You were looking at the site, so you have no room to complain.
Swinging is absolutely NOT for the insecure. It is for people who are very, very secure in themselves and their relationships.
You'd best stay out of the adult world, you're not mature enough. |
Do people actually have sex in Swingers Clubs? Which one is the best in Las Vegas? I read on the Internet Red Rooster.
There are others and all describe like they probably have sex there? (I am thinking would'nt it be illegal?) But my friend told me that no sex, they are just there to take your money and girls just dancing on, I suppose, men's laps. Would it be interesting for a woman to visit? |
| They DO have sex in there. I know because a good friend of mine goes often. To the Green Door. You can go to just watch & look. It is a heavy experience if your new to that kind of thing. |
Could u ever trust a girl that u met on a sex and swingers site? I met this woman on a sex and swingers site, at first i didnt know she was married until she told me about a month later. she ended up leaving her husband and im just curious if shes a woman that i could ever really trust? |
It depends, but it doesn't sound too likely.
Just because she was on a sex/swinger site doesn't mean you can't trust her. Did her husband know she was doing that? Is it something they did together? If so, not a big deal. On the other hand, if she did that behind her husband's back before they split up, that's a signal she might not be one to be trusted.
Most trustworthy swingers will tell you upfront exactly what their relationship status is. Her being married and not telling you probably means she was trying to find someone that her husband wouldn't know about. I'd steer clear. |
I'm a single male looking to attend swingers parties/sex clubs, what criteria do they look for in general? I know only a few single males get extended an invitation to attend these types of events..what I'm wondering is what criteria is this usually based on? Is it purely looks? Is it wealth? What does it tend to be? |
| Probably looks, wealth, social standing etc. Swingers parties are for couples, not singles, it would just be a sausage fest if no women were to go and only single men did |
What Are Some Good Questions For A Sex Survey For A Swingers Club? I'm starting a swingers club and I want to put together a survey for all the members to complete to get some background on their sexual interest to help with the different themes we have for the parties. What are some good questions to ask? |
Obvious safety things (Drug and disease free)?
Favorite position?
Any fetishes?
Any costumes or fantasies they would like to act out?
Anything they might have tried and like (especially at other parties)?
Any toys or DVD's that they enjoy?
Anything they're opposed to doing (acts, positions, toys, or scenarios)?
Any advise or comments? |
Are there any clubs where couples to go to have sex and not have it be a swingers club? My husband and I are looking to do something different and I know there are clubs where you can go to for swingers but we just want to go to have sex with each other and have others watch us if they want but not join. Is there any such thing and anywhere near Phoenix, AZ? |
| Haha. Just post something on Craigslist. Im sure there are creepy desperate people who would love to watch you have sex with your husband. |
If you're seen at a swingers club/ sex club (legal one), can your bosses fire you if they hear word? If one were to go to one of those dominatrix clubs and someone sees you and tells others and word spreads eventually to the bosses, do you think it likely bosses of corporate environments will fire you? |
As an extension or maybe an addition of emphasis to the second answer: the company has no control over what you do in your free time. However, if you are on a business trip, from the moment you board the plane/train/bus or drive towards your destination, you are on the clock, so to speak. Even if it is free time, you are representing your company on this business trip, and whatever you do or say speaks about your company. Now, say on a Saturday or after work on a weekday, you go out to a sex club that is perfectly legal, they should not be able to fire you (unless it is company policy or stated in your contract that you should not go to these places, but even having that in a contract or company policy is not legally feasible, to my understanding). And even if they were able to fire you, few people would admit to seeing you enter a club, and even less would even think about talking about what you did inside the club, because for them to see you inside, they would also admit to being there. Finally, a boss can't fire you over what other people are saying about you, at the most, he will confront you about it. And even after doing so, the most he can do is reprimand you and ask you to be cautious of what you do in your spare time... and that's it.
(Lawyers, please help with the legalities of what I've just said. Thanks.) |
Sex Clubs or Swingers Clubs near Philly? My boyfriend and I are feeling adventurous and would like to find a cool sex club or swingers club. The only one I heard of apparently got raided and shut down. Are they illegal? And where can we find one? Thanks! xoxo |
This might help:
www.swinglifestyle.com/swingers/c… |
Advice on swingers/sex club in washington D.C.? Me and my wife are going to more of a sex club per say in D.C. Its called crucible lifestyle. This is going to be our first time ever doing this so needless to say were nervous because we dont know what to expect. Can anyone give us any advice on what to expect or how things go down? or if you have been to this particular club tell us how it goes down? Please no bad answers just be helpful please. |
| For a few years I ran a mixed (gay/straight/bi, male & female) S&M club in a major city. And I'm thinking the etiquette would be pretty much the same. Let me start by saying that at the club is not the place for you and your wife to get into any disagreement about your expectations. Try your best to fully discuss the possibilities and be on the same page BEFORE you go to the club. If you're going to be in D.C. for several days, then it might be best to just observe the first night. Later the two of you can discuss what was going on. And then consider participation at a subsequent visit. If it's a one shot deal or you just find yourselves ready to play right away, then that's fine, too. You'd be surprised at the things I've seen "newbies" doing. One guy was actually taking notes! No. Not good. Observe but don't gawk. Don't interject yourselves into another couple's play unless you're invited. I'm not talking engraved invitation here, but look for some sign of their interest in you. Remember that generally the best way to determine whether there's chemistry is to simply talk to people. Conversation is good. Lastly, try your best to not be nervous, don't be pushy, and just have fun. |
Has any1ever went to those swingers sex clubs b4? I have seen on HBO'S real sex episodes that some places have adult sex clubs for couples i was wondering what states have them and has anyone ever went to one? |
Most states do have swingers clubs. There are a few states, like Utah and Montana that don't have clubs.
But, if you want to find out what clubs are in your area, go to www.nasca.com and click on On/Off Premis clubs. A map of the US will appear. Simply click on your state and see whats in your area.
We have one of the best here in New Orleans. We've been going for about 5 years. We love it. |